懂得放下才能更好的前行。你不得不承认一个事实就是:你决定不了一个人的出现,你也决定不了一个人的离开,你能做的只有珍惜不期而遇的惊喜,也接受突如其来的失去。“突如其来”用英语怎么说?something important or unusual that happens suddenly or unexpectedly. The resignation of the chairman came like a bolt from the blue.to make something happen suddenly or sooner than expected. Fear of losing her job precipitated her into action.由于担心失去工作,她突然采取了行动。